it takes two hands to clap...

they say one should always find one that loves you more than you love him or her. i disagree. it should be one should always love themselves before they even attempt to love another. besides, what kind of relationship works when its just one party playing all the cards? it takes two hands to clap. one way communication ain't gonna make anything work. what's more of an imbalance affection for each other? don't see the point of two person together yet only one throw all the effort and time in when the other just play along. don't understand when only one speaks and the other just listen. at the beginning, it might seem like its compromising, tolerance. yes indeed, compromising and tolerance but a continuous one sided party relationship? will only drain the very energy of that person. sooner or later, even if its meant to be it will only become a waste of effort and time.

don't miss a person that is not around. miss them when they are around and let them know.
why regret when everything is gone? why cry when at the first place there is no need for tears?
it's amazing. people always say and post the whole "appreciate those around you" up everywhere yet...people tend to let the one person that is important to them slip by.

practice what you preach. don't let anyone slip by. good things don't come twice in life, what's more the one person that you know is important in your life. opportunities don't come by just like that. happiness, warmth and all is not own just by you standing there. action speaks louder than words.